Howdy! Welcome to my post about dating in Colorado Springs, here’s a page full of all the information I think you should have up front.
So I’m in Colorado Springs, and enjoying living life on my terms after a very tumultuous time in Denver.
Most of my friends have told me I should get back into dating now that I’m in one place for a long time, and that makes sense to me, but I have no desire to deal with the nonsense that comes with it.
My plan so far is working; I’m living life, building my businesses, and working on new big projects (a homestead). Dating is not a priority for me, but I’m open to it and actively participating in events around dating.
There are other posts about my preferences and such, but here’s the starters:
Dealbreakers:
Tobacco users, Drug abusers, poor drivers.
Women with poor hygiene, attitude, conflict management skills, mindset, health, fitness, or communication.
Women who can’t, or won’t, ‘meet me halfway’.
Women who want to chat, text, or message for weeks or months on end without meeting.
Women who think meeting = sex. It doesn’t have to.
My process:
1) Are we mutually initially attracted each other?
> If yes, move to item 2.
2) Are we clear of each others deal breakers?
> If yes, move to item 3.
3) Would you like to meet in person and see if we have chemistry?
> If yes, move to step 2.
Step 2: Meet at a coffee shop or diner for coffee, tea, or whatever you like to drink. If things go well, stay for brunch or dinner.
You get yourself there, I get myself there. We meet, we talk, maybe we flirt, maybe we make plans and exchange numbers.
This is NOT a date, this a MEETING. It’s designed to see that the other person is real, to see if there’s chemistry, and to enjoy the day.
When we’re done, we go our separate ways, in our own vehicles.
No, you don’t get to come to my house and meet my dogs, yet. Yes, I know they’re adorable, thank you.
Feel free to peruse the category to learn more about me. 🙂
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